Daily Check-In

[mecurtin]

This is your check-in post for today. The poll will be open from midnight Universal or Zulu Time (8pm Eastern Time on Tuesday) now to midnight UT (8pm Wednesday Eastern Time).

Poll #24894 Daily check-in poll

This poll is closed.
Open to: Access List, detailed results viewable to: Access List, participants: 43

How are you doing?

I am OK
31 (72.1%)

I am not OK, but don't need help right now
11 (25.6%)

I could use some help
1 (2.3%)

How many other humans live with you?

I am living single
20 (46.5%)

One other person
13 (30.2%)

More than one other person
10 (23.3%)

Please, talk about how things are going for you in the comments, ask for advice or help if you need it, or just discuss whatever you feel like.

Comments

[serafina20]

Thanks for the support yesterday. My dad had a good night last night and is still with us. I"m trying not to be too hopeful. RIght now, I just hope I get to talk to him again.

[mecurtin]

{hugs upon hugs}

[adafrog]

{{{{hugs}}}}

[ex_flameandsong751]

I hope you do too. <3

[we_are_spc]

Yea! I hope you do, too.

-T~

[we_are_spc]

I haven't checked in lately because I've been chugging along in the 'not okay' camp for a bit.

...

Until now. *sighs*

There's this thing; it's called foreclosure (Which my 'family' is helping with, thankfully) Which means I have a temporary FPOA who's also my sister-in-law. OK, fine. That was until:

Roomate, as nice as xhi could be about it: "Oh hey, reevaluating living arrangements. This isn't working; We would like to have you out by the first of the year. (In six weeks.)
My family, apparently misinterpretting it as *by* six weeks is moving me out (Nonnogociably) in *three*. Basically FPOA was like "My rules or theirs, and if you play by theirs, I walk away."

Okay fine, that would be fine. For fully able-bodied people. Which *NO ONE* in this house is. All three of my roommates (One of whom is a toddler) are on the spectrum, the other two adults have invisible disabilities that make it very difficult for them to function on this short a timeline. Especially since it includes cleaning their shit out of the storage unit we now both share. ... which on a *good* day takes a lot of spoons. Lake county is at level four, and my family's like "All the better to move out *now*." (Or at least my aunt is.) She also kinda blew of having a last Yule (Sulstice) with...welll, it's just a made up day, just have it on a different one." ... No, I wanted one more thing of normalsy because dammit 2020 has been unstable the fuck enough, thanks.

I also have to figure out how to move all of my services from here to the new move location, some of which cannot be that quickly or easily transferred. VR takes sixty days just to go through the intake process; that doesn't include meeting with counsellors, setting up service plans... *sighs*

Monitarily speaking, it'll be better because one of the reasons it wasn't working was finances; cleanliness wise...we all hae issues that make it interesting; personality wise...yeah well, there's that, too.

My family's renting a U-haul, so I don't necessarily have to pay moving expenses (Although a little extra to play with wouldn't go amiss; although no one absolutely *has* to), so that's nice, but still this timeline is freaking me out and making me crazy, and the first week hasn't even ended yet.

Oh, and on top of that? I'm in self-quarrantine because I was on-sight at the new location taking care of business there; that quarrantine ends on the fifth. Soooo yeah. *sighs*

-T~

[lexin]

Oh, this sucks. I'm in the process of moving house (from London to Wales (UK)) so I know whereof you speak.

[we_are_spc]

*nodnod* I'm totally blind; the rest of the household isn't, but the other stuff makes up for that lack in spades.

-T~