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Poll #28530 Daily poll
This poll is closed.
Open to: Access List, detailed results viewable to: Access List, participants: 31

How are you doing?

I am okay
19 (63.3%)

I am not okay, but don't need help right now
11 (36.7%)

I could use some help
0 (0.0%)

How many other humans live with you?

I am living single
12 (38.7%)

One other person
14 (45.2%)

More than one other person
5 (16.1%)



Please, talk about how things are going for you in the comments, ask for advice or help if you need it, or just discuss whatever you feel like.

Date: 2023-02-25 01:28 am (UTC)
mecurtin: Crop of Rothko Chapel paintings: black and purple (grief)
From: [personal profile] mecurtin
I haven't mentioned this before, but ...

The reason I downgraded from "I am okay", which I had managed to achieved a month or so after my mother's death, is because a young(er) man, the son of my husband's best friend & basically a nephew to us and cousin to our children, died last week. Completely unexpectedly and while it was probably an OD, LAPD still hasn't officially listed a cause of death. My husband, who is much less of a leftist than I am, says "normally I don't agree with you about defunding the cops, but I'm being radicalized". Details redacted, but let's just say TV & literature both deceive us a LOT about how deeply the system cares about untimely death and possibly murder.

I'm also doing a lot of work dealing with my mom's estate, etc. My IBS has been *vicious* but I definitely have come to agree with my daughter, it's really NOT about what I'm eating or not eating, it's stress.

Date: 2023-02-25 02:01 am (UTC)
dewline: Text: "Empathy in Silence" (empathy-2)
From: [personal profile] dewline
Wishing you better days, and balm for your losses.

Date: 2023-02-25 02:45 am (UTC)
kathmandu: Close-up of pussywillow catkins. (Default)
From: [personal profile] kathmandu
::sending sympathy::

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